Which specific plan of God's? Oh, you know, just that all women obey their husbands fastidiously — a dynamic that CDD thinks is best maintained through doling out out corporal punishments. Its few thousand practitioners, however, claim that it's not domestic abuse.
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It's merely a "practice between two consenting life partners in which the head of the household HoH takes necessary measures to achieve a healthy relationship dynamic Here is a list of the "necessary measures," as culled from the Beginning Domestic Discipline "Beginner's Packet", which is 50 pages long it also includes photographs of ideal spanking positions, as well as of spanking implements, with a list of pros Seeking domestic discipline partner cons for each.
Beneath each "necessary measure" I've placed a quote Sewking illustrates how delusionally fucked-up it is:. According to the pamphlet, there are three components to the punishment process: I want to hear your Seeking domestic discipline partner of the story.
I just want to get to the bottom of what Seeking domestic discipline partner. Removing Privileges. The list of privileges that "can be removed" include credit card privileges, driving pattner, "going out with friends" privileges, computer privileges, phone privileges, and cosmetic privileges. This punishment is generally used when the privilege is being misused or abused, but it can also be a punishment for specific behaviors.
It can be used as motivation as well.
For example, "Before I pzrtner for work you said you'd Seeking domestic discipline partner all the laundry done, but it sounds like you've watched TV all day instead. No more TV until the laundry is finished. It's up to you as to when you get your TV privilege back. These are fairly typical "time outs," the sort of punishment a parent administers to a child in elementary school.
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Corner time is considered to be a reasonable and appropriate punishment to Seeking domestic discipline partner behaviors such as a poor attitude, failure to listen, nagging, light back talking, or any other minor behavior deemed immature, annoying, or completely uncalled for Seekint unnecessary by the head of the household. Seeking domestic discipline partner is, predictably, the longest section of the packet — it constantly reaffirms that the head of household "MUST be under control when administering a spanking," which is administered when "a mistake is made, or poor judgment is exhibited by the submissive partner.
Rubbing or providing a soothing pain reliever essentially defeats the purpose of a spanking.
The spanking must be painful to act as a strong deterrent to repeating the unwanted, dangerous, or detrimental behavior in the future. According to Jim Seeking domestic discipline partner, a forensic psychologist who has written a book on abuse in Christian homes, CDD is "an outlet for emotionally disturbed men with intimacy deficits"; it draws in "a more pathological group of people" because it infantilizes women the Beginner's Packet addresses concern this under Seekng section titled "Hesitations": However, Alsdurf characterizes CDD as "an act of Seeking domestic discipline partner sexual arousal" that's all-too-often done "in a controlling, mildly abusive way.
The submissive partner isn't expected to obey the dominant partner's wishes in every aspect of life. The dominant partner doesn't control the submissive partner's finances or leisure activities, and the dominant partner doesn't dictate completely when punishments should occur.
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Even if CDD is a displaced form of sexual arousal, it's one that reflects and severely intensifies an abusive power dynamic under the guise of a completely consenting relationship. Although it dates back toit's filled with entries from women who no longer enjoy the practice because it's transformed into a method of intimidation and control.
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I wanted the spankings to stop and my husband told me it was either DD and marriage or divorce I chose divorce. Disciplune the other hand, even for couples who don't explicitly experience the abusive dynamic as such, their aversion to seeing the practice as sexual leads to unsatisfying communication between the two. It's not surprising that a woman would unable domfstic articulate her needs within a CDD power dynamic, since she has little, if any, deciding power.
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How am I supposed to respond when he thinks that a spanking will fix everything and reset things between us yet there's no discussion involved? And what about when a man makes a mistake? According to Seeking domestic discipline partner, a CDD practitioner, it's not the woman's job to point that out. According to the Beginning Domestic Discipline packet, the husband's means of addressing his own mistakes is to Seeking domestic discipline partner his wife a "very heart-felt and sincere apology", and then to "make a genuine, conscious effort to prevent the mistake from happening again.
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